Rude prego comments

[BlueberryMOM]

Ok.... I know that while being pregnant that a lot of people forget to think before they speak and then say something really offensive to pregnant women.

So lets share what we have encountered so far!!!!!!!! It will make us realize that we are not the only ones enduring the painful remarks!

[prego7386]

i love my husband to death but i told him i wasnt feeling as excited as i thought maybe i should right now instead of comforting me he says " well to tell you the truth i'm just really afraid that you wont do anything else with your life after this except being a mom and i want you to start college as soon as you can after the baby is older"..... 1.  I dont think there is anything wrong with a mother who devotes herself to her child. Its not my plan to be a completely obssessed parent but damn...2.  I never said i wasnt goin back to college or that my life was over!  Sometimes they can say things before thinking i know but errrr that just really got under my skin.

[BlueberryMOM]

oh man...... tell him to carry the burden then and trade places!!!!!!! MEN SOMETIMES!

My hubby was kind enough to tell me that he "didn't understand why I was gaining weight already and starting to show when the baby was the size of my finger nail!"  UUUUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!

Quoting prego7386:

i love my husband to death but i told him i wasnt feeling as excited as i thought maybe i should right now instead of comforting me he says " well to tell you the truth i'm just really afraid that you wont do anything else with your life after this except being a mom and i want you to start college as soon as you can after the baby is older"..... 1.  I dont think there is anything wrong with a mother who devotes herself to her child. Its not my plan to be a completely obssessed parent but damn...2.  I never said i wasnt goin back to college or that my life was over!  Sometimes they can say things before thinking i know but errrr that just really got under my skin.

[LND]

No rude comments here.I had one though a couple months back before I got prego someone asked me when I was due. I wasn't even prego.

[stldragon79]

We went out to eat at a buffet and I was complaining that all the food was out of stock and no plates were stocked. While I was complaining my sister 's boyfriend which is old enough to not make comments. Said well they didn't know they were going to be feeding someone eating for four. I'm only pregnant with one baby. It really upset me. I had to ask my husband when we got home if I was looking that fat. I know I should not have let it bother me but something about it got me just down.

[mom2laci]

in response to me gaining 7 pounds in one month, the doctor told me at my last appt, "wow whatcha been eating?"  and whenever i say i'm hungry, my husband feels the need to comment "what else is new?" or "of course you are".

geez men, thanks or making me feel like a big cow.  i have gained about 15 pounds total this pregnancy and i'm halfway through.  thats average so i don't why everyone feels the need to comment on how much i eat. 

oh and this made me so mad!  my back is killing me, all day, everyday.  i asked my husband to rub me and he said "we'll see what going on later".   he has made the comment of wanting to try one more time for a son.  i told him he can be pregnant with the next one if he ever wants the chance for having a son.