Would you get married b/c of your kids? (PIOG)

Hello, I guess I was in the same situation.  We have 3 kids and we did get married about 6 years ago for the kids I guess.  We had some problems but now everything is great and we get along great and actually enjoy each others company.  I guess I really have no advice but do what you feel is right dont do something and regret it later.  I wish you the best of luck. 

I got married because i had a kid and it's not a good idea. He supposibly loved me which i don't think was ever really true and i honestly only married him because we had a kid together. Our marriage lasted for 9 months and we were both miserable the whole time. We r still married but have been seperated for the past 3 years. He hasn't seen his daughter BY CHOICE that whole time and i have even tried to encourage him to have a relationship with her but won't. I am engaged and never been happier. Yes i am pregnant with my fiances baby but this time it is the real thing i am sure of it! My advise to u is if he's not the type to settle down don't do it. If u both r only wanting to get married because of the kids don't do it! U will be miserable and ur kids will suffer as well. I can't say ur situation will turn out like mine but u should only marry someone who u truly love and u need to make sure that person feels the same way about u.