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1st fight with the Mother In Law over vaccines

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:17 AM
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My ds and me and my dh have all had vaccine reactions and she was trying to tell me that my dh needs the shingles vaccine  SHe says it is heriditary.  I have never heard this.  I told her that there was no way any of us were getting any vaccine for any reason.

Posted by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:17 AM
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ZandMommy
by on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:23 AM

 I also learn many months ago that shingles are hereditary but if this is true, getting a vaccine wouldn't change that fact. It would be in the genetic already.

sweetangie79
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:40 AM

Very true.  I also read that the vaccine can cause the issue.

sreichelt26
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:45 AM

Getting the vaccine DOES NOT make you immune. Especially if it's genetic. And yes, getting the vaccine can exacerbate the issue.

Sounds like she's one of those who think vaccines = not getting the disease ever.

But guess what? He's a grown adult and doesn't have to do what his mom tells him anymore :)

sreichelt26
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 12:49 AM

btw, this is taken from the CDC's website:

The vaccine for shingles (Zostavax®) is recommended for use in people 60 years old and older to prevent shingles. The older a person is, the more severe the effects of shingles typically are, so all adults 60 years old or older should get the shingles vaccine.

In a clinical trial involving thousands of adults 60 years old or older, Zostavax reduced the risk of shingles by about half (51%) and the risk of post-herpetic neuralgia by 67%. While the vaccine was most effective in people 60-69 years old it also provided some protection for older groups.


Reducing the risk by half is not good enough for me - especially when he's had reactions in the past. And there wasn't anything on the page about recommending it for younger ages

ruthie11617
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 1:23 AM

How is a viral infection hereditary? Shingles is caused by a virus, not hereditary, right?

sweetangie79
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 3:22 AM

He is not taking that vaccine or any other I just wanted to know what you ladies though.

Fields456
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 3:25 AM
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My mil had an argument over vaccines at Ds one
Week. She is such a hypocrite she won't even take Advil yet tried to tell me vaccines were good. I laughed. Dh chewed her out and I havent heard a word since
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sweetangie79
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 3:32 AM

She is normally cool, but dh told me not to worry.  He is so sweet.  We are so good together.

emmy526
by New Owner on Feb. 16, 2012 at 7:06 AM


Quoting Fields456:

My mil had an argument over vaccines at Ds one
Week. She is such a hypocrite she won't even take Advil yet tried to tell me vaccines were good. I laughed. Dh chewed her out and I havent heard a word since

YAY!! a story about a hubby being on baord and chewing our his mother over vaccines!!!!  Thats a first for me on this type of board. 

sweetangie79
by Member on Feb. 16, 2012 at 7:17 AM

My husband is the greatest and has no issues standing up for me and what I believe to anyone.  He is great.  My son's autism doesn't both him and neither do my health issues.


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