anyone here go through a divorce with young children? [on topic!]
my husband and i are divorcing. currently things are pretty ok between us, and he told me that he doesnt care about vaccinating our daughter. but of course that can change if i piss him off or if his parents try to convince him to be pro-vaccine for whatever reasons.
so have any of you or a close friend gone through a divorce and made it out alive and with an unvaccinated kid? i was thinking about having both him and i sign a paper that agrees we both do not want to vaccinate. but will that even hold up in court?
im positive ill get physical custody because she is only 18 months, and also still breastfeeding. plus my living arrangement and job allows me to be with her, not put her in child care. but i read that the court likes to do shared whenever possible, so the medical will likely be shared.
advice, suggestions, and anecdotes welcome!