Am I crazy? I am at the end of an horrible divorce, my ex has literally tried to pull my name and reputation through the mud. The accusations are absolutely ludicrous. The whole time we were married for 11 years he wouldn't even wear his wedding ring, and I've been told that when he would be on jobs he would actually say he wasn't even married and would ask women out...and through all of this he has been spreading rumors that I have been having affairs and that I stole money from him and a bunch of lies. It's amazing how you find out who your true friends are....(the divorce has been going on for almost a year...)
On top of all of this, 2 months ago I met someone and we started dating. Huge red flags have been happening. I feel like I have entered into another verbal and emotional abusive relationship. He won't let me spend time with any of my friends, calls them names when he hasn't even met them.He wants me to account for every moment of my day. I told him over this past weekend that I couldn't deal with his overly possessiveness and that I wanted time alone, what happens, he shows up at my house unannounced to see if I am really there, and proceeded to check my bathroom and walk in closet to see if there was someone else in the house. I demanded he leave immediately, which he did, but then calls this morning acting like nothing is wrong.
I feel like I'm going crazy...why do I keep attracting abusive and volatile people?????