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Posted by on Sep. 25, 2007 at 10:09 AM
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Here is the story so Sean and I dated for 4years prior to the birth of our baby boy! When i was 6mos pregnant we broke up and it was devastating for me because ever since i got pregnant i have loved him more and more each day! He started dating a younger girl and things between us werent going so good. We couldnt even have a conversation with yelling at eachother but i still loved him. So when tristina was 3mos old he is 4mos now sean told me him and sarah broke up yet my friend works down the street from where sean lives and told me her car was there everyday. So i was like whatever. Well sunday i went to the parade and i get a text message from sean saying he was getting out of work in an hour and he wanted to know if tristian and I wanted to hang out with him for a bit. I thought it was wierd because he never invites me anywhere he normally justs asks to take tj, but he wanted both of us so i went there and hung out with him for an hour. Then went to my grandmas house for dinner and found out that i left the formula at his house so when i get there he comes walking down the stairs and in front of me is her car, So i am like what the hell. He came to the car and i asked why he felt the need to lie to me and he said she is upstairs right now getting her stuff out of his place now. At first i didnt believe him but then he asked me to come over later for a movie. So then i was like why would he invite me over if she was still going to be there. So i went over and nothing happened we were very civil talked about everything under the sun, from work to tj. Now the wednesday before this all happened he called me up to talk to me but wanted to talk to me in person which i thought is wierd normally he makes convers short between us. So he had to help a friend out and ended up coming to my house around 10:30pm he was hungrey and in need of a shower and was tired so the old sean would have called me and done it another day or talked to me about it on the phone but no he came to see me and we talked for 45min in the car we discussed a set schedule for tristian and that was it, i wondered why he couldnt just tell me on the phone but while i wa sin the care i sensed there was something more he wanted to say but when i asked  he said um nothing. So what do you think he is doing. Do you think maybe he matured a lil bit and wants to make our family work? This is the kid that when i would break up with him he would threaten to kill himself! Would climb on top of me and say never leave me i love you so much and need you in my life. Has any of this happened to you if not then what do you think?

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by on Sep. 25, 2007 at 10:09 AM
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Tahjanae_s_Mom
by on Sep. 25, 2007 at 10:17 AM
I would honestly take things slow...if he has matured, which is possible...it would be nice to sit back and watch him before jumping into anything. It's not good for you. But I can see how much you love him and want your family to work....more than anything. But just go slow...the end shouldnt be in sight!!! But isnt it nice to feel wanted and invited?? :))))) Cant wait to see you on Wednesday!!!

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