ok...I don't mean to offend anyone...but I have always been the type of person who rolls their eyes at the thought of online dating and whatnot..(I knew someone that brought home not one...but two pedofiles!!! from online daing so I'm VERY hesitant....well......this guy I have been casually talking to....is really turning out to be a great guy!!! He is a single dad who has all of his kids by himself...(all from the same mom) his wife just up and walked out on them like 12 years ago and he has been raisning them alone ever since. He has a stable life, is ex-military, a great job, very good looking, only 2 years older than me and he and I have a LOT of common interests!!! If he lived in the same state as me he would be perfect!!!! I would totally trust him to be around my daughter, and could really get to like this guy...but he lives halfway accross the country!!!! He wants to come out here and meet me in person.....he is very sweet and kind!!! I would LOVE to meet him...but I'm afraid that if we did hit it off...then what??? He still lives far away!!!! And what if he does come out here and is disappointed by me???? I hate to sound whiney or anything....but I really am tired of all the b.s. from the losers I've had in the past. I really want to find a REAL man that will treat me AND my daughter great!!! I want someone that supports me and encourages me...he does!!! he asks about my classes ...he remembers when I have tests and asks how they went...He says he is very impressed with all the groups I am in at school and the work I do with them. He is always telling me how great he thinks I am......Man it has been so long since a guy has really genuinely complimented me and it wasn't about how great my @$$ or boobs were!!! Someone help me out here.....I talk to him almost every night. should I just pull away from this guy or what??? I've never done a long distance thing before...I'm not sure what to do here!!!????!?!?!
~Adrienne & Ava
on Sep. 28, 2007 at 12:51 AM