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Serial daters

Posted by on Jan. 25, 2010 at 9:11 PM
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Has anyone that has dated online concluded that guys that date online like to keep looking even though you agree to be exclusive and shiz. The last 2 guys I dated, I met online and both of thier own volition were all having the exclusive talk and stuff real fast.  I know the last one was still very active on the dating website and even agreed to chat and get to know one of my other friends on there so obviously wasn't being exclusive.

What do ya think? Online makes them bigger pigs?

Bridgette
by on Jan. 25, 2010 at 9:11 PM
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calgalmeg
by on Jan. 25, 2010 at 9:33 PM

I think the internet really allows people to be themselves much more than they use to have the option to.  With porn of all kinds available, "let's meet up for NSA sex" sites, and other such things- there are a million and one ways to be a dog.

That said- I don't think the good guys (and I still believe there are good ones) are that way or can be tempted into it. 

I think back to my step-grandfather and my grandfather.  

My Step-grandfather traveled a great deal, he went with my great-uncle and the two of them would practically compete on who could cheat the best and most often.  Even after he quit traveling though- he just looked around and was a little more choosey- sure he didn't have dozens of women then only one at a time but he still had them right up until my grandmother gave him the ultimatum and moved to another state.  He followed her and gave it up (his doctor telling him his heart couldn't take it anymore helped too I'm sure).

My grandfather on the other hand, worked far from home and long hours and was the owner of his business- he could have very easily cheated and my grandmother couldn't have done a thing but he never did.  Even for the 9 years he lived after she passed he wouldn't even go on a date- for him my grandmother was the only woman in the world.

 It is never too late to be what you might have been.  - George Elliot

ProudSingleMum
by on Jan. 26, 2010 at 9:16 PM

HA...no I don't think online makes them bigger pigs. I think it just makes it easier for them to get caught :P

calgalmeg
by on Jan. 26, 2010 at 9:40 PM

rolling on floor

Never even thought about it that way but it's true!  That's how I caught DD's BD.

Quoting ProudSingleMum:

HA...no I don't think online makes them bigger pigs. I think it just makes it easier for them to get caught :P


 It is never too late to be what you might have been.  - George Elliot

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