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First Date

Posted by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:26 PM
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I am going on my first date in like forever. I can't remember the last time I had a date. My ex and I hardly went out. So, it's been awhile. Since I hardly know this person, it makes things harder on me. We went to high school together and found each other on Facebook. We knew of each other but never talked. I am so nervous! I want this date to go well and hopefully turn into something. I just don't want to get burned again. I want him to be normal and not out of his gourd like a certain someone is. I just hope he's good to my kid or he's out.

I needed to let that out. Thanks for listening!  

by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:26 PM
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pandermom
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:28 PM

Good luck, just remember be yourself, don't fake it. Have fun!!!

Jbby
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:30 PM

i think your thinking to much into this date..

 

him meeting your kid should be far from your mind right now..

it should be a looooong time before he does.

 

and just have fun.. enjoy yourself :)

kcook55
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:48 PM

good luck and have fun let us know how it goes.

kcook55
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 1:49 PM


Quoting Jbby:

i think your thinking to much into this date..


him meeting your kid should be far from your mind right now..

it should be a looooong time before he does.


and just have fun.. enjoy yourself :)

yea but i think if i was in her shoes i would want to know upfront if hes going to like kids. instead of 6 months later he decides he dont like kids.

calgalmeg
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 10:22 PM

My advice is take it as a fun time and don't worry about a future with someone you don't know.  Think of it as an excuse to get out, sharpen your skills at meeting people and if it goes bad- one less bum you ended up with.  If he turns out decent it's a nice surprise, just remember dating is a process of elimination you have to go through a lot of junk to get the treasure.

single_and_preg
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 10:48 PM

Wow please let us know how it goes!!

I hope yo have a good time!


jenn31
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 10:50 PM

Enjoy your date, but dont think to much into it. Who knows what tomorrow holds, just enjoy the moment

beka83
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 10:51 PM

Have a good time!  I haven't been on a date in forever either...

Kissybratzmom
by on Mar. 6, 2010 at 11:11 PM

Enjoy your date and just take it day by day! 

GlowingxMomma
by on Mar. 7, 2010 at 9:27 AM

Well the date wasn't bad and it was great. He bragged a lot. He also mentioned not wanting kids, which to me is not good. I mean I want more kids some day. He's not so keen on marriage either. Which, I know is not something I'm thinking now, but I don't want to be with someone and it not go anywhere either. So, I'm not sure what I want to happen now.

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