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any NY area moms? To all moms - how often do the dads see the kids

Posted by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 11:16 AM
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Ok so there is apparently no set schedule on how often teh dads see the kdis are there?  I live in NY.  R there any other NY moms going thru divorce court?  I have my first conference next week.  He is paying child support but stopped paying school tuition/gymnastics and refuses to pay summer camp.  He says its bc I dont have an income, but I do Im disabled and get SSD.  SO we are so broke at this point I can barelya fford food.  Luckily I have season passes for kdis places so she is not getting deprived there.  She has gone thru so many changes this last year and Im trying to keep things as normal as possible.

Oh he does have a rotating schedule.  Hes not a cop but the days and hours change every week. so every other weekend unfortunately cant work

My ex I really think is bipolar, he is a sex addict which is documented by a dr.  He now only wants to see her 4 times a month. and not even weekends.  WHat kind of father does this.  I told him most normal men do every other weekend, one weeknight every week and one afternoon/dinner every week.  He just doesnt care. 

He uses my daughter as a dating tool and brings her around all sorts of women.  My atty says unfortunately there is nothing I can do about that.  He is going to have her for a full week next week, the first time.  I am fraeking out bc 1)all the women 2) he watches porn even around her 3)he has no common sense he le`aves her by the pool alone and lets her (shes 4.5) go on haunted house rides al alone and I deal w the nightmares.   I dont want to give her to him but law says I have too.

Is anyone else going through this?

by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 11:16 AM
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by on Jun. 26, 2010 at 12:24 PM

im not going through what u are but i will say that my sons father i had to leave him when i was pregnant with my  lil man and he seen my son when he was 5months old for 5 min and then again when he was 2 for 5 min after that he has never seen him again or had nething to do with him other than those 2 times and i would fight with him to have something to do with my son and he is now going to be 8 next month

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