Just wondering on everyones opinion..... do you think its worth the fight to have the father involved if hes so hot and cold on the subject?? One minute he wants to see my daughter, who is 9 weeks old, the next he's talking paternity tests, terminating his rights etc!! We were at court today for the 2nd time and I had to bring my daughter cause she hasnt started daycare and he wouldnt even look at her, hes never come to see her, and had the balls to say that his reasoning for wanting to terminate his rights is because its taking away money from his son!!!!!!!!!!!! ( from a different woman, he's 4) What about his daughter!?!?! AAAAAAHHHHHHHH I just get so frustrated!!!!