Hello Mommies! I need advice! To make a long story short my sons father was there for the first 4mths of his life, he cheated on me..and I told him he couldn't see his son anymore, granted I didnt have a rite to tell him that but he coulda took me to court for visitation or tried to work with me but he didnt 7 months later not hearing from him, no money, no clothes for him, he wants to pop up today I didnt even have a number for him...he txts me and ask how he's doing and if im letting him call my bf dada and if I am he can't be mad but heard I was...he said he hasn't been there b/c he didnt want me to play with his emotions of saying he could see him and he couldn't not to mention he left me with his phone bill that was in my name 2 credit cards he promised to pay and some other stuff he promised to pay, I mentioned that and he said if I wasn't so VENDICTIVE with HIS child and HIS car he wouldve paid..I said VENDICTIVE? lets be honest ur child doesn't even know you exist and ur car? It was in my name and I paid the bill so I took the car from your ass and sold it..he tries to make it seem like it's my fault I admit I in no way should have put my feelings before my sons but I will not take the blame..he coulda went through the courts and wouldn't have had to deal with me at all I cant help but get angry that he's missed out on so much of his sons life..his first walk, talk, crawl, and that he's been a great father to his daughter ( she's not by me) he says I held his son away from him unitL i felt ready to notify him that he can see his son and that bcuz he didnt jump when I said jump I consider him no good. That Ive made my mind up of him being a piece of shit and no good and that i'm the BOSS whenever I want to let him see his son let him know..WTF! this boy is crazy I told him the reason he hasn't seen his son is because he let his ego take over..he had to much pride to call me and tell me he wanted to see his son..of course he'd never admit anything he did was wrong it was all bcuz of me..but to me he still coulda sent money..clothes something! should I let him back in my childs life? he considers my bf dad now..but he has a rite to know his sister and his biological father..he said he'd call me monday nite to let me know when he's off so he can come and get him? what do u ladies think?
on Oct. 21, 2007 at 8:03 AM