I have my cousins wedding this weekend and I am soo not up to going. We don't talk or see each other all too often and when we do we hardley talk. She's a party girl...Lottsa friends and that's what her whole life evolves around. My brother and I were always pushed aside by her. When I had my children she never even came dwn to see them. Holiday invites were always turned dwn by her to due to her having other plans.. I have lots to do w/my gilrs that day anyway, and my little one is not feeling well either...... Is it wrong to just tell her I can't make it or am I just being selfish if I don't go??????????? Help!!!!!!!!