So... my divorce was final in June, and I was dating someone for nearly a year while my divorce was ongoing and thought he was a nice guy. But it seemed as soon as the ink was put to paper and the divorce was finalized he warped into this totally different person. He started going through my phone, my laptop, wanting me to constantly tell him who I was talking to, where I was going, and then he seemed to get more abrasive and hard on my son. Snapping at him, looking at him sometimes like he was disgusted when he would do something that he didn't agree with. Needless to say we are no longer together, and its been five months since all this, but now there is a new guy. Far younger then myself, but mature in his way of acting and behaving, but I don't know if I can handle the stress of possible drama. Granted nothing indicates that he would act the same as the last one but...I don't want my son subjected to another male who turns out to be a jerk. Its one thing to hurt me, but hurting my son is a whole other issue. Do I date again? Or just have like four cats and call it a day?
on Oct. 28, 2007 at 6:47 PM