Im a single mother and I have been since the day my son was born.
His father has not been a very big part of his life. though Im content with that, it is by his choice not mine. The man is a self centered drunk.
however, over the past few months some things have been going down and now I am beggining to worry. We had child support established in 04/07 but a custody agreement has not been ordered. Now, two years later he wants him. But what is worrying me even more are the indirect threats he has been giving me. everytime I talk to the man he tells me how much he hates my guts, he has told me that he wishes an accident would happen, like I would get in a car wreck and be killed....just night before last we were arguing via text messaging and out of no where he says, and this is a direct qoute:
"My hands do not shake. I could murder a man and my hands would remain still" my response was,
"yeah, I think you are capable of killing thats why I keep everyone up to date on our situation and why I fear for my sons safety in your care..."
his response was "you are right"
I was open to letting Landon visit him but now I'm scared of what he is capable of...he really is a drunk..what will happen to my son if this man is allowed to have him?he called and told me tonight that his g/f is moving down and they are setting up a "family enviroment" to bring Landon into...and his lawyer is on the case..I MUST do SOMETHING! I have to fight for full custody but, as I said, Im a single mother and I dont have thousands of $ to hand over to a lawyer....please, if there is anyone out there that has any suggestions and advice I would LOVE to have it.....I must act quickly....I can also be reached at my myspace www.myspace.com/nikkislo
please, I need someones help