I have a nine month old, his dad broke up with me when I found out, then we got back together a few days later, at 8 weeks he did it again late July (the worst time, a day after my baby brother died) he was in and out my whole pregnancy, hed call say he was coming, wouldn't show up, ect. He missed the birth, said horrible things about our son and denied him until a few months ago. from august, the month after he left he moved in with his ex who had just given birth to their son(long story) and always messed with my head. Recently he moved out of his crazy now ex girlfriends again and we have been talking. We want another baby, and even if we aren't together I still only want another baby with him. I don't want more than one baby's father and I honestly can't imagine having sex with someone else since I had his kid, it just doesn't seem right to have sex with the private that gave birth to his kid. My whole family bashes me about it, saying I'm stupid and ect. But really at least I know what to except from him, say I get pregnant by someone else and he dips out too, it's the same unexpected heartbreak all over again... Does this really sound that stupid? Is my family right?
** I'm not trying to stick up for him BUT a big reason we had problems and he denied our son for a while is becuz my "bestfriend" for 6 yrs had this secret obsession with him and went behind my back told him I always cheated on him and the few times we went out and drank I had sex with multiple guys which is not true at all! and she pulled the 'I didn't want to tell you becuz she's my best friend but I thought you should know' bs. And he got hired at the place she worked and she had all her coworkers say that stuff too. We only met in January I got pregnant in June so really I can't blame him for believing her but I'm still pissed he didn't see thru it since two days later she was trying to suck his dick in the bathroom at work!
on Dec. 15, 2011 at 11:28 PM