My sons father and his brother live together in an apartment. To make this less confusing we'll call dad (D) and his brother (B) Ok... so B & D live together.D use to smoke pot way before our child was born and I'm sure he has a few times since then but never around our son. B smokes pot and does it while my son is there. Him and his friends go into his bathroom and smoke up! I don't like this at all. So I said something to D about it and he said he would say something to B about it. I guess he said something to him today b/c lastnight I was in the ER with my son and D met us there, and we got into a big arguement about it and B called me this morning to cuss me out about it. Like I have no right to say what goes on in the house that he helps pay bills for.. MY SON IS MY BUSINESS!!! I got soo mad I threatened to call child services on the both of them. He just kept saying "I'll do what I want in my house I don't smoke it infront of him" Am I in the wrong to think that smoking in the bathroom is the same thing as smoking it infront of him!?!?! Rolling it up and talking about it when his friends come over is not done in the bathroom its done right infront of my son!!! I've even went over there to find a "roach" in an ashtray on the livingroom table after my son has been over there. I don't know how to stop this b/c their family has the attitude of they can do what they want and no one can stop them. I'm sooo mad right now I'm in tears.... I don't want my son growing up around that stuff much less it being done around him. So when he gets older what am I going to say to him when he says well B does it and D thinks its ok why can't I!?!?!! I hate this soo much. I really wish that the both of them would go jump off a bridge.. ok so thats not so nice to say... I'll rephrase... I wish the both of them would move to Antartica :) I've tried sooo hard to keep ppl from cussing and using bad language and smoking cigarettes and all that stuff that I believe childern should not be exposed to just for his damn father to put drugs in his home where his son stays from time to time. I don't want either of them to go to jail nor would I want to be called a snitch... but with my baby in the mix of it I have half the mind to actually take legal action against them!! Its D's apartment, B just moved in and every since then... things have changed dramatically! UUGGHHH!!! I wish he would kick him out!