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Would you let your BD take your kid/kids overnight...

Posted by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:41 PM
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If he only visits once a month? If he has never lived with them either?
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KaelynnsMommy64
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:44 PM
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Absolutely not.
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aj23
by Amanda on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:48 PM
I let my sons dad take him for overnights when he wants. He's never lived with me and he's 2 hours away so short visits are hard to do. If he sees him at all its only once a month but when he does its an overnight visit.
He's been taking him since he was about 9 months though so my son is used to it.
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aydensmommy0406
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:49 PM

 My son is almost 6 and his father has NEVER seen him. There is no way I would let his BD take him to the park for an hour let alone overnight.

Anastasia1414
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 8:55 PM
Im with you!


Quoting KaelynnsMommy64:

Absolutely not.

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SexyDiva19
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:01 PM
Same here. Hes never spent 5 mins alone with my son. Plus the fact that my ex stays with his gf and her family. I dont know them and I've only seen her couple of times mostly when my ex and I go to court for cs.


Quoting KaelynnsMommy64:

Absolutely not.

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rebmarie90
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:15 PM
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Unless it is court ordered my ex will never have the kids over night. He lives in a 2 bedroom house with his gf, her 3 DDs and her parents. My kids (4 and 1) would be forced on to the couches and I am NEVER going to allow that. 

tyfry7496
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:54 PM
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My son's father has had him overnight, twice in almost 16 years. My son now REFUSES to have anything to do with him. When you ignore your child for a good 10 years, thems the breaks. My ex is smart enough to not force the issue. 

Mommyto2LilMen
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:57 PM

NOPE!

Belovedmoonpixi
by Bronze Member on Jan. 15, 2012 at 10:15 PM

Considering he´s seen her for about 3 full days in her whole 11 and a half years... NO. Not only that, but I haven´t seen him/had a real conversation with him since she was 4...that´s 7 and a half years ago... at this point in our lives, save for the biological bond, he´s an acquaintance bordering on stranger to us!

LifeCafe42
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 10:41 PM
No way
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