I just really need some advice and opinions on this situation (non-judmental).
So here's my dilemma, Im 9 weeks pregnant and there are 2 possible fathers :/. The one guy i've been dealing with and having unprotected sex with since the beginning of september. We were having sex consistenly like every weekend. He has 2 other children, is an athlete doesnt smoke or do drugs so he's in pretty good health. He was also the last person i had sex with. We last had sex december 19th. Now the other guy is someone ive known for years we used to deal with each other but this was my first time having sex with him in almost 3yrs. This was a one time deal and we also had unprotected sex on december 15th. He's 29 has no kids, smokes and drinks. Lucky for me i keep track of all my periods. The first day of my last period was December 6th. My due date is September 13th and according to the app on my phone my conception date is between Dec 20-22. Personally i think its guy number 1....but i still have doubts. I want to get a non-invasive dna test once im 10 weeks....but this is driving me CRAZY!!!! Any advice????
Aw man, that's a really tough situation. Sperm can stay alive and well and able to fertilize an egg for about a week inside of you. So be careful before you start pointing to who "dad" is. I have heard scary things about the DNA test that can be done while you're still pregnant, so make sure to look at all the complications that can happen and weigh the risks before you do it. It may be worth it to wait until the baby is born (though I know that will be hard on you).
Either way everything will be okay. I know this is a really tough situation right now but like everything else in life, this too will pass. Just think, when your baby is born that will be the most beautiful face you've seen in your life, regardless who their dad is. Good luck with everything, we're always here to listen and try to give whatever advice you may need. :)
There is no such thing as an non-invasive DNA test during pregnancy. I don't know what advice to give you other than good luck.
The dates are too close to be able to determine the father w/o a DNA test done. Believe me I know from experience that the one you think might be the father may not be. Do they both know the situation? How are they feeling about it. It only takes once so either of them could be even though you want the one to be the father. Ask your doctor when the best time is, I had to wait til she was born & then still had to wait til she was three months for the DNA test so your lucky if you can get it done this early in the pregnacy but dont do any testing that has even a 1% risk of harming the child. Good luck!!!
I would let both possible dads know. The only way you'll be able to find out is after the baby is born and they get a DNA test. Congrats on the baby tho
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