Do u ever think of ur child? i mean seriously. u jump from one guy to the next and move in w them right away. Dragging ur kid right along with you. ok fine ur an adult u can do what u want, but did u even stop to think about the psychological ramifications ur actions may have on ur child? i get u hate having to go w out sex. i hate it too. but u dont see me jumping from relationship to relationship moving men in and out and my bedroom door being a revolving door. i went w out for 3 1/2 yrs. And even tho I have an fwb i havent brought him around my kid, cuz unless its a long term committed relationship no mans gonna meet my kid. hes not having different "dads" "special uncles" or whatever move in and out constantly. he will have stability in his life. u can always have a fwb too and not move the dude in. heck u can DATE him w out moving him in. and newsflash u barely know the guys. how do u know hes not some pediphile who is molesting ur kid while u sleep? so uve talked a few times at work big deal u dont KNOW him from Adam and ur bringing him home!!! Seriously grow up, stop acting like the world is all about u, put ur kid(s) first and be a woman w a back bone. your not gonna die w out a man living in ur house. and if u do and the coronor determibes that u died cuz u didnt have a man living w u i will go to ur funeral and say i was wrong in front of everyone.
What you are describing sounds exactly like my neighbor. She would move a guy in the first night she met him. Her son (he is 6) literally begs for her attention and she can't figure out why he acts out at school.
Quoting MamaTrucker937:What you are describing sounds exactly like my neighbor. She would move a guy in the first night she met him. Her son (he is 6) literally begs for her attention and she can't figure out why he acts out at school.
So, so true. I hate even hearing people getting married in 2 months after meeting. But after a night of talk with someone close, it can last, but sometimes it's for all the wrong reasons and then it fails.
Thank you!! There's some women who bring their child(ren) into their private life and it's horrible. Bringing guys in and out of your kid(s) lives fucks them up mentally and that makes them think it's ok to go from relationship to relationship. Plus there's so many sickos out there. With a child, you can't jump into something with someone. There's too many horror stories I've heard about kids being molested, raped and/or killed by people their parents were dating and didn't bother to find out if they were a threat to their kids. If end up dating anyone other than my son's dad, they're not coming around my boy unless I've known them for at LEAST 2-3 months. But even then, I wouldn't even think about moving in with them unless I've known them for a while and I've seen who they are. Plus that'll give time to look for red flags. That's what being a mother is about, putting your children first, not your neediness for a man first.
That would make me so mad. That poor boy must be so messed up in the head.
Quoting MamaTrucker937:What you are describing sounds exactly like my neighbor. She would move a guy in the first night she met him. Her son (he is 6) literally begs for her attention and she can't figure out why he acts out at school.
=( sounds like my son's little sister's mom. thankfully, the state took custody of her DD and placed her in her grandma's care.
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- Jenn8604
on Feb. 10, 2012 at 10:17 PM