ugh idk what to think ne more!

[clfranc]

So I finally got a call from bd. Apologizing for not being around and giving his explanations which was supposedly his guilt for breaking the promise he had of not leaving me to do it on my own due to his anxiety and depression. I told him it still doesn't make it ok and he is going to have to prove he's going to be around for the baby cause I don't believe him. He offered to go to Dr visit if I still wanted him to and I told him I don't need him to now when it counted he wouldn't. He said he is going to be in the babys life so now its a wait to see if he means it. I wanna believe him but after all that's happened cant. I didn't even cry while talkn to him proud of myself :) I also let him know exactly how I felt n what I thought so he knows how bad he messed up!!

[Shy_Dia]

nice! hopefully he gets his shit together and is there for the baby!

[clfranc]

I hope so to! Like they say hope for the best but expect the worse n I am.

Quoting Shy_Dia:

nice! hopefully he gets his shit together and is there for the baby!

[LifeCafe42]

Hopefully he means it and steps up for your child's sake. Don't count on it believe it when you see it

[iluvmybabe]

Maybe he just needed a fire lit under him lol. Guys don't realize how hard it is to be a single mother.

[clfranc]

I hope so! I'm not he's already let me down he's gng to have to prove his self now! I lol him I'm still not telling him when apt is or ne thing he wants to know he has to make the effort to find out

Quoting LifeCafe42:

Hopefully he means it and steps up for your child's sake. Don't count on it believe it when you see it

[clfranc]

Lol right!!

Quoting iluvmybabe:

Maybe he just needed a fire lit under him lol. Guys don't realize how hard it is to be a single mother.

[Landynsmom62609]

Weird I got an email from my bd yesterday saying the same stuff lol, and that he is sorry for anything that happened in our relationship (him being physically and verbally abusive but he wont admit to that) only reason he is contacting me now is because the girl he met a few weeks after i left him that he married a month into their relationship filed for divorce because he was abusive to her as well and he thinks he can get me back, hell no!

[clfranc]

How weird wonder how many other bd tried to apologize lol. Oh hell no! I wouldn't take him bk either n sorry he was that way with you when yall were together :(

Quoting Landynsmom62609:

Weird I got an email from my bd yesterday saying the same stuff lol, and that he is sorry for anything that happened in our relationship (him being physically and verbally abusive but he wont admit to that) only reason he is contacting me now is because the girl he met a few weeks after i left him that he married a month into their relationship filed for divorce because he was abusive to her as well and he thinks he can get me back, hell no!