No, I don't want to have sex.

[rebmarie90]

My friend just recently broke up with her DDs dad and is now a single mom. She has chosen the route of having a FWB and I haven't. I haven't had sex since feb 2010. I have decided that I don't want to have sex till I am in a commited relationship. I am not a person who is capable of having sex just to have sex. 

Well I called her today when I got off of work and I was telling her about the guy on fb who I think wants to ask me out. She told me that I need to start dating and I need to get laid. I have told her over and over again that I am just not in a place where I want to have sex when ever. 

First off I live with my mom, second, I have the kids 24/7. She has her DD 4 nights nights a week so that leaves 3 days where she can be single. For me, its just not a thing I am ready to do. I want to be living with the guy. I don't understand why she just can't understand that. Yes I am going on bc this week but that is because you never know what will happen. What if I do meet someone and we end up living together? I don't want to have babies anytime soon, not with in the next couple of years. 

[Mommyto2LilMen]

Do what is best for you!

[MeeshMom]

I think people shouldn't criticize people for not having sex. Do your thing. You won't regret waiting.

[rebmarie90]

Quoting MeeshMom:

I think people shouldn't criticize people for not having sex. Do your thing. You won't regret waiting.

Thank you! I don't think I will regret it either. This is the only topic that she bugs me on. We are two totally different people but we mesh so well together. It is just this! She keeps telling me that I will be happier after I have had sex. I am not an unhappy person. I am stressed out but that has a lot to do with living with my mom and anytime my ex decides to show his face. 

[jenahrae1991]

sometimes our friends just dont "get it" but you do you all the way!

[KailesMommy]

Its your body, your life! Do whats best for you not her. I think your right i mean its not her choice.

[mamaof3nj]

I hear ya-- heck I have my son too every night for the most part but even when I'm "FREE" I miss him --- and I currently --well 1 month ago kicked my guy out. I love him.

But I ONLY LOVE HIM! and I have this guy that I hang w/ but I think he too wants sex-but hell I wont even snuggle-I'm not attracted to him, but def. NOT READY!

BTW--I have told him this! the "new guy"--- I hope my x can get himself together and we can be happily together.

[JACAR2010]

I have not been intimate in over two years and have no desire to. You want to live together first, then do that. I want to be married so I'll wait for that. We gotta be true to ourselves.

[cadeesmommy0120]

 

Quoting Mommyto2LilMen:

Do what is best for you!

 

[faerie75]

 she just cant wrap her mind around it because its not what she wants. dont let it bother you.

[brieri]

 Do what you feel is right.  No one can tell you differently.