men do it why cant we??

[Nena09alc]

men can go around and have sex and do what they want and it will make them look like the man!

but if a women were to go around and do the same it makes her look like a whore or immature. 

so by any chance is there a way for women to go out have sex and get men without being concidered trashy?? 

or are we forever going to be one step behind men??

[SinceresMomma]

I agree with what you saying but either I wouldn't even wanna go around just sleeping with any and everybody. It's about having respect for yourself and most men just don't care.

[gabrielat]

I've always felt that way too. I hate double standards and guys can bascially do anything and be a "man" but if women do any of that, we're either trashy or lesbians. I used to sleep around when I was in high school but I wish I didn't. It made me feel trashy after I was over with that phase. But now that I don't regret it anymore, I just see is at it made me who I am. But I never tell guys about that phase anymore. The times I did, the guys always automatically thought I was a slut and would try to get me to sleep with them. 

But I still agree with why can guys be able to sleep around with 7 kids at home all with different baby mamas and be concidered a pimp/player. Yet chicks who sleep around with 5 kids with 2 different baby daddies are conciders sluts. Either way I don't think sleeping around is something people should do, but if it's done there shouldn't be one gender getting away with it while the other gets labeled. 

[moosesmom]

i knew the post was going to say this before i even read it. lol. we can do exactly what men do...just prepare yourself to be labeled. and yes we'll always be one step behind :-(

[MeeshMom]

I don't care to be like a man in the sense that there's no stigma attached to sleeping around. I'd rather be above and have respect for myself and a higher stature in my professional career and ability to provide for my family. If you wanna sleep with a bunch of dudes nobody is stopping you just wear condoms.

[faerie75]

You can do it. You just need to be discreet about it, be single, use protection, and the man be single. I did it for years.

As long as your self esteem is good, you don't care what ppl think.

[faerie75]

Oh id like to add that men w lots of babys moms are nasty to me. Not to be a bitch but most of the time if ou have 4 kids from 4 men I DO tend to think you may have issues. But I feel the same about a man in that situation.

[MissTuree]

Ok you need to stop. I haven't been hardly able to comment at all today because everytime I'm about to write something I read something you posted and am just like, "That's exactly what I was thinking!" So I just 'like' your comment and don't write anything! lol

Quoting faerie75:

Oh id like to add that men w lots of babys moms are nasty to me. Not to be a bitch but most of the time if ou have 4 kids from 4 men I DO tend to think you may have issues. But I feel the same about a man in that situation.

[MissTuree]

I think we will only stay behind them in this front if we can't stand on a united front over the issue. So many women want sexual freedom but still speak down to the women around them calling them 'whores', 'sluts', tramps' and every other gawd awful name out there.

If we can't even show respect for each other how can we expect men to show us respect?

[gabrielat]

This is so true. Some times when I've told other girls that I used to sleep around, they look at me and I can instantly tell they're thinking "Damn what a slut. I'm surprised she doesn't have HIV or something." And I'll hear them saying something behind my back saying I'm a slut. But then I'll hear about them cheating on their boyfriend or basically they'll do something in the sense of they slept around. Either another chick will be hypocritical and/or judgemental about another chick sleeping around. We're all women, we should stand behind each other. 

Quoting MissTuree:

I think we will only stay behind them in this front if we can't stand on a united front over the issue. So many women want sexual freedom but still speak down to the women around them calling them 'whores', 'sluts', tramps' and every other gawd awful name out there.

If we can't even show respect for each other how can we expect men to show us respect?

[Robsessed98]

thats one double standard that im afraid will always be around. i say if you wanna screw around its none of their business. fuck whoever doesnt like it (well, not literally. lol)