having sex with someone new......im nervous!

[kayg3]

Been seeing someone for awhile and we are thinkin to take things to next level, but I'm nervous cause since having children my body has changed a bit. What if he gets turned off by something.....Idk

[iluvmybabe]

If he likes you for you, that won't matter. I know its still nerve racking but it is what it is. Try to stay calm. and enjoy the moment.

[Mommyto2LilMen]

Don't be so self conscious.  Stay calm and enjoy yourself! Have fun!

[dutchmama2011]

Quoting Mommyto2LilMen:

Don't be so self conscious.  Stay calm and enjoy yourself! Have fun!

[Misha1204]

This

Quoting Mommyto2LilMen:

Don't be so self conscious.  Stay calm and enjoy yourself! Have fun!

[clfranc]

I agree with the comments above! I have lots of guys friends n they have said a girl that was self conscious was a huge turn off!

[arrieana]

Going to be honest with you, every mother that has had a kid, well most of them are self concious about there body. He will not be turned off trust me if he's wanting to go to the "next level" the only thing on his mind is damn she's beautiful, you will be nervous no madder what but it takes time. Have fun and I hope  you have a good valentines 

[LifeCafe42]

I agree enjoy and relax!

[mytrueloveS]

This happened to me last week, but I had sex with a lost high school friend.  I think I ruined it for the both of us, it was just too ackward.  Don't make the same mistake, no one is perfect, seriously, enjoy yourself.  

[Robsessed98]

perfectly said

Quoting arrieana:

Going to be honest with you, every mother that has had a kid, well most of them are self concious about there body. He will not be turned off trust me if he's wanting to go to the "next level" the only thing on his mind is damn she's beautiful, you will be nervous no madder what but it takes time. Have fun and I hope  you have a good valentines 

[kayg3]

Thx ladies....I will try not to worry about it.