So I had a feeling I should take a sleeping pill and turn my phone on silent last night. Sure enough at 10:30 me Ex calls. He is drunk telling me I stranded him in Arizona at his families house. That his family has "turned" on him and "I hope you die, b$#@!". So I call his sister and she says he got in a fight with his brother. He is 29 his brother is 18.... and head butted his brother and punched holes in the wall (btw they have to move in like 2 weeks, now have to fix all these holes). he calls me again and left me a message about how "I never loved him, I just wanted to take my daugher from him" and he is going to end up in prison and that is my fault.
So I checked his phone records. Since I left, he has been calling the b*&#% he left me for the last time shit hit the fan. I know her boyfriend, she is gunna have some explaining to do. As for my Ex, he will no longer have a phone, but he will have nice new custody papers to fill out.
aw wow sound like a lot of drama. sorry he called u those names
Quoting camommy08:aw wow sound like a lot of drama. sorry he called u those names
Thank you, to both of you. Yeah, he is a jerk. I just finished the paperwork for custody today and I will be filing next week. I really am not too stressed about him now. The distance between us helps a lot. Before I left, I felt drained and I was not myself anymore. I am getting myself back though. I can feel it. 
Quoting StephMarie_Mom:
Agreed... Hopefully you're able to find some peace from all this
Quoting camommy08:aw wow sound like a lot of drama. sorry he called u those names
Quoting MFCsarah:Thank you, to both of you. Yeah, he is a jerk. I just finished the paperwork for custody today and I will be filing next week. I really am not too stressed about him now. The distance between us helps a lot. Before I left, I felt drained and I was not myself anymore. I am getting myself back though. I can feel it.
Quoting StephMarie_Mom:
Agreed... Hopefully you're able to find some peace from all this
Quoting camommy08:aw wow sound like a lot of drama. sorry he called u those names
Definitely. I literally felt drained. Like I was a shell. Since I left I have continued my school work, had 1 interview (have a second for the position tomorrow), gotten custody stuff done, spent everyday (when I am not in court or interviewing) playing with DD, and not once have I thought about him. Except for, who is going to serve him the paperwork. I honestly feel I am doing exactly what I should be doing. I no longer feel trapped.
Quoting StephMarie_Mom:
That's great. I'm glad you're beginning to feel more like yourself. I know all to well how it feels when you're not feeling like yourself. It's one of the worst feelings. Keep doing what your doing, because it's clearly the right thing to do.
Quoting MFCsarah:Thank you, to both of you. Yeah, he is a jerk. I just finished the paperwork for custody today and I will be filing next week. I really am not too stressed about him now. The distance between us helps a lot. Before I left, I felt drained and I was not myself anymore. I am getting myself back though. I can feel it.
Quoting StephMarie_Mom:
Agreed... Hopefully you're able to find some peace from all this
Quoting camommy08:aw wow sound like a lot of drama. sorry he called u those names
Quoting MFCsarah:Definitely. I literally felt drained. Like I was a shell. Since I left I have continued my school work, had 1 interview (have a second for the position tomorrow), gotten custody stuff done, spent everyday (when I am not in court or interviewing) playing with DD, and not once have I thought about him. Except for, who is going to serve him the paperwork. I honestly feel I am doing exactly what I should be doing. I no longer feel trapped.
Quoting StephMarie_Mom:
That's great. I'm glad you're beginning to feel more like yourself. I know all to well how it feels when you're not feeling like yourself. It's one of the worst feelings. Keep doing what your doing, because it's clearly the right thing to do.
Quoting MFCsarah:Thank you, to both of you. Yeah, he is a jerk. I just finished the paperwork for custody today and I will be filing next week. I really am not too stressed about him now. The distance between us helps a lot. Before I left, I felt drained and I was not myself anymore. I am getting myself back though. I can feel it.
Quoting StephMarie_Mom:
Agreed... Hopefully you're able to find some peace from all this
Quoting camommy08:aw wow sound like a lot of drama. sorry he called u those names
didn't see this coming
- MFCsarah
on Feb. 27, 2012 at 12:08 PM