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do you shop at walmart... if so MY ex doesnt think your a good enough mother....

Posted by on Mar. 9, 2012 at 12:31 PM
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Ok so yesterday I tried to speak with my ex about picking up my kids on saturday. he has them bc its their spring break and I wanted to have them for a few hours.... no big deal but he turned it into some huge favor likes hes the greastest thing in fucking world...... anywho after being a dick and me hanging up on him he calls back a few hours later and is nice. we have brief convo and its civil. Afer that he flips a 180 and starts bitching me out...

he actually had the nerve to tell me that I couldnt buy my son shoes from walmart because they were junk!!!! And if I was a good mother id go buy some shoes from stride rite....because apparently walmart isnt good enough(oh and he says all this in frount of our 4 year old daughter too...great parenting huh?) He literally went on and on and on about this for 15min and I was floored. He expects me to go buy so 40$ shoes because HE said so. And Im not supposed to go get my nails done because I need to spend that money on buying better shoes for my son. ( i didnt pay for my nails fyi)  WTF!!!! does anyone else have an idiotic ex like this who still thinks he can control what you spend your money on???? if so please  help bc im so angry right now I just dont even know what to do

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MeeshMom
by Platinum Member on Mar. 9, 2012 at 12:34 PM
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You should've told him he can pay for the shoes. What a d-bag
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Caleighsmommy
by on Mar. 9, 2012 at 12:41 PM
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Quoting MeeshMom:

You should've told him he can pay for the shoes. What a d-bag


I did...he says he doesnt have enoguh money to pay for kids in two houses.....well thats because he doesnt work

brieri
by Platinum Member on Mar. 9, 2012 at 12:48 PM
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 next time walk away.  No need to listen to his c......

MeeshMom
by Platinum Member on Mar. 9, 2012 at 12:50 PM
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Then tell the pos to get off his ass ad get a job. What a shitty dad to not work and buy $40 shoes for his kids!

Quoting Caleighsmommy:



Quoting MeeshMom:

You should've told him he can pay for the shoes. What a d-bag


I did...he says he doesnt have enoguh money to pay for kids in two houses.....well thats because he doesnt work

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SinceresMomma
by on Mar. 9, 2012 at 2:32 PM
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Well I agree he should step up and buy stuff for your son if wants to complain but some of Walmart stuff is junk and looks pretty cheap but you could still look nice. I don't really shop there for clothes anyways but baby stuff I don't mind.
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Shaken1976
by on Mar. 9, 2012 at 2:50 PM
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I buy my kid's shoes at Stride Rite all the time.  I find them on super sale.  I got her a really nice pair for $12.  You just really have to look.  Not saying anything is wrong with Wal-Mart shoes.  Just if you bargain shop you can find high quality shoes for lower prices than Wal-Mart.

LifeCafe42
by Nora on Mar. 9, 2012 at 4:02 PM
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My childsfeet grow so quickly he doesn't haave time to wear out his shoes if he wants expensive name brands let him buy them.
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cadeesmommy0120
by on Mar. 9, 2012 at 4:32 PM
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 I don't spend more than $20 on DD's shoes because her feet grow so damn fast.  Tell him to screw off...

NananRaysmom
by Bronze Member on Mar. 9, 2012 at 4:35 PM
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Who doesn't shop at wal mart? My kids are too hard on clothes and shoes to get them there. Plus...I don't like the styles. But..if you do so what? He can buy his shoes if he doesn't like what you provide.
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ms-superwoman
by on Mar. 9, 2012 at 4:47 PM
My BD is like that! Thinks a two year old needs $80 shoes but doesn't want to by them or pay his CS. He'd rather spend money on his gf. Bunch of d-bags!
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