When people find out that my sons father and I still socialize they are surprised. It's not like he's my best friend or anything but I don't see why if we aren't together we can't be cordial..Right? Every Time I say something about my sons father the first thing people rush and ask is "Are you guys back together???" NOOOOOOOOOO we aren't back together. I want people to understand that even though my relationship with him ended on bad terms that I as an adult am willing to put something like that behind me for the sake of my son. I took the most important step and ended things between us but I'm not going to act like a total B***h and make it hard for him to see or know how his son is doing. I don't want my son to be raised around a bunch of petty arguing and parents constantly bad mouthing one another behind the others back. I delt with that as a kid. It wasn't and it still isn't ok. When my son gets older I want him to know that even though his parents aren't together anymore that we still RESPECT and HAVE LOVE for one another.
Do you still get alone with your child or childrens father's even though you aren't together.