My co-worker has 3 kids. One is "his", 2 are "theirs". Her sister wants to take "their" kids to Hawaii, but doesn't want to take the 1st kid that is "his" from a different marriage. Who does this??? They all live together in the same house, full-time. The oldest one sees here mom very rarely.
How do all of you split your kids for visitation/vacation/summer time etc...? I know it's usually according to the child custody agreement, but how about for other family members? Grand parents?
I think you either invite them all or none go.
EDIT- Thank you- I thought maybe I was the crazy mom just not "getting" it!