DD has been hell lately. That is the best way I can put it. I live with my grandma because she needs help with keeping up with her home and I need a baby sitter when I work because I work 13 and 14 hour shifts 7 days on and 7 days off with no breaks. My gma video recorded DD a few days in a row and showed me what she is doing. Because DD eats at school in the morning she doesnt eat breakfast at home, well DD was hungry and my gma was giving her some crackers that DD likes a lot and dd took them then THREW them on the counter and told her "I don't want that I want oatmeal and I want you to make it now!" and screamed that at her. She told her No. Which I would have done and more...so when she came home from school she wanted a snack. Ok, she wanted an apple, we were out. So gma asked her if she wanted some pretezls to hold her over and she took some and went to her room to play, came back out with them and yelled again, "Do not give me these again I hate them and I will not eat them" Then threw them on the floor and walked away. This isn't all but I don't want to make this long. I have no idea what to do. I showed DD all the recordings to find out what she thought and to explain what in the hell she thought she was doing. All she said was I don't know and left the room. I spank, and she doesn't act like that for me. My gma tries to spank but doesnt like to. She will if that happens with all the yelling at her and throwing things at her because gma tells her to go to time out and DD runs from her. She has to try and chase her down and then DD gets under the beds and laughs at her for doing it. Me I have gotten her for acting that way with me and she doesn't anymore. But she does give me a really hard time. I have told her she better not act like that anymore or she is in so much trouble. I told her kids that act like can be in trouble with the police but nothing works. My gma has sat down with her and has talked with her and it doesn't work. DD is an only child and is not around kids that act like that.....even in school.
Problem number 2: Last one I hope. lol
DD is VERY friendly. She loves to talk to people and be nice to others outside of our house. She goes up to random guys and says Hi my name is Kaile and I'm 4 whats your name? I have told her not to and gone on about stranges and they can take her and she wont see us again and can get hurt soooooooooo many times. She cries about me telling her because I kinda go a little deep into it but then it has been not even 10mins later and she is back doing it. Someone is always out side with her and it happens soooo fast I have no idea anymore. She tells me that because they wave back to her or say hi they are nice and her friends. I don't know how much more clear I can get with her and her to listen. What would you ladies do on these 2 problems??? I need help.