I am 16 with a 6 month baby boy. Yes the guy walked on me i was the tough one who just told him and told him to do what he thinks is right. Sadly he has never seen our son but he has a kid 3 months older than our he sees/watches all the time. Now he calls and checks up on him so he is coming around on his own time and I allow it to happen. This summer he wants to spend time with our son so we will se what will happen. But my father didnt play a big role in my life so i really want it for my son i just dont show it. My family has no idea i speak to the father because that will lead to the child support convos and more that i am really trying to avoid.
Next my first love/first to have sex with took my pregnancy for the best and was there for me knowing my son was not his. No one knows my son is not his because to today everywhere is me him and our son. But the communication is dead i cant deal with anymore i just moved to a different state so we are not phsically together anymore so communication is important to me not to him.
Now i meet i guy and he insist i should give dating him a chance but i cant the thought is terrifying i am not the one to have a lot of guys running in and out with a kid/ what is he does not except my son. He does know i have a son but it could still be unreal to him. I did allow him to take me out. He took me to Red Lobster and the park. it was the best date of my life. He opened doors for me walked me to the door really got to know me and at the end of the night took me to a pond to make a wish with a penny. I have never been treated so nice in my life.
My life is so complicated.