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Drugs Over Family

Posted by on May. 2, 2012 at 11:03 AM
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My kids dad picked drugs and a trashy slut over his family and kids...He also chose working 24/7 and going to jail over and over (recently for theft) over the kids....And yet I am horrible for not making it work? Thats what I have been told.....


it kills me everyday cause i did love him and i do miss him but he screwed us over and I know he is a danger to the kids so i have to protect them! My kids come way before myself so i wont go back to him.....how ever some times i just wish he missed us which i know sounds stupid


Anyone else's kids Sperm donor like this?  ( call him that cause he doesnt deserve the name father or dad)

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by on May. 2, 2012 at 11:03 AM
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Mommyto2boys178
by on May. 2, 2012 at 11:06 AM
Sounds a lot like my boys fathers...
My 2 year olds dad chose drugs and his other 2 kids over my son. He eventually lost custody of his other 2 kids. My son hasn't seen his father since he was 7 months old.
And my youngest father chose drinking and partying over his son. He's 8 months old and hasn't seen him sincere was 3 months old.
I honestly wouldn't have it any other way. They are happy and taken care of and that's all that matters to me!!
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stevie31
by on May. 2, 2012 at 11:11 AM

Yeah im having problems with my baby daddy. i tried to make it work with him , but it is impossible .  i am 38 weeks pregnant and he has become addicted to pain killers and is constantly out getting drunk.. i told him he will have no part in the birth or  our sons life if he doesnt get clean, and it seems that he doesnt want to get clean :/ i dont want to go into labor in the middle of the night and try to call him and he is out getting drunk or at a friends house getting high. it is very depressing to think about.

LovelyDayz
by on May. 2, 2012 at 11:36 AM

I feel my children's father chooses his friends and his music over us alot of times. He tells me that is not the case. But I always get that feeling. Basically if he had to choose to watch his own children over his music, he'll be pissed smh!

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