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were forced to love our kids

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I absolutly love and adore dd but yes somtimes I do feel that way..does this make me not ok? do u ever feel this way
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by on May. 4, 2012 at 10:54 AM
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MamasaurusPrime
by on May. 5, 2012 at 11:38 AM

LOL she isn't afraid to call me down, but she will act all innocent to others.

It doesn't make her look good or favorable at ALL.

But I agree with you. I'm not surprised this is beginning to look like drama, or like they are assuming she feels forced to LOVE her daughter. She should just go back to school and learn the difference between "like" and "love".

Quoting tyfry7496:

You stated the question so we are answering according to that. Maybe you should have used LIKED instead of loved and our responses would have been different.


Ngi ne themba - I have hope.

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by on May. 7, 2012 at 8:14 AM
Not uncommon, if you are upset.
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sugarmomof3
by on May. 22, 2012 at 11:32 PM

 Nobody HAS to love anyone if they don't want to. I hear of parents every day who do terrible things to their kids-I don't think they loved them very much. But if you don't love your kids unconditionally, then why have them? I don't HAVE to love my kids-I WANT to love them. I may not always like the things they do & they sometimes frustrate the hell outta me, but I will always love them no matter what, but NOT because I have to.

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