I know there are a lot of dad's out there who don't care to spend time with their kids like they should and I should be thankful that my stbxh adores our kids and wants to be with them but I think I need to set limits. We have a visitation agreement, this agreement states that stbxh gets the kids from 6:30pm Friday night to 9:30am Sunday morning and I get them the rest of the week and then we have holidays divided. The past few weeks he has come by to see the kids during the week and then either not taken them on Friday night or dropped them off early - since we agreed the kids should not be around his gf until the divorce is final I know he spends his Sundays with her, he mentioned how she wants to spend more time with him and I know that is why he's been switching his schedule. I know I should be happy that he comes by during the week to make up the time he loses on weekends but I find it unfair - we are divorcing for a reason, I don't want to be around him if I don't have to be and it is also taking away from my alone time with my kids - he gets Friday and Saturday, the two days they can stay up late, go out and play all day. When I have them between work and school our time together consists of homework, dinner, bath and bedtime - I don't get to go out with them so I want to suck up all the extra minutes during the week of just watching tv or reading or crafts together and he's taking that from me because he needs time on the weekend. I don't want to take dad time away from the kids but I feel like it's unfair to me. If his gf can't understand that he has a set arrangement then he needs to deal with that not rearrange my life to suit his/her needs. I just am stuck because I don't want to hurt the kids by demanding he stick to his schedule and let me stick to mine.