I met this guy that I really like and while getting to know him I found that he is more manly than all the men put together that I have ever had in my past. He's a provider, he's sweet, listens well and definitely an overachiever. I really like him but one thing is really keeping me from being with him and thats his weight. Now dont get me wrong i have always been attracted to thick men but he is really overweight. I am even a larger woman myself so I know what its like to be judged on your looks. He tells me how beautiful I am and that he has never met a woman with such a big heart like me. He is a very hard worker and overall a good man. He has been asking me lately to be in a relationship with him and I just dont know what to tell him. I really want to give him the love that he deserves but I have been trying to think of a way to tell him about the weight issue but I just cant. I will not by any means hurt his feelings. He's too sweet and lovable and I refuse to break his heart. He is very confident in who he is and I have never met anyone like him. What would you do in this situation.