Hi my name is Amber and I have a soon to be 2 year old son. His dad and I had been together since July 2009 and broke up back in November after getting back after a short break. I understand that we are not meant to be a couple and have no desire to get back with him because we have come to realize we are better as friends. The thing is that he's my frist love and even though we are friends and still want the best for each other, I am really struggling with the fact that he is starting to talk to someone.... I want him to be happy but is it selfish of me that I cant be happy for him unless I am with someone too? I catch myself thinking back of the all the good memories we had together and sometimes I wish I just had someone else to distract me. Just looking for advice... Anyone else been in a situation like this?