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He said he will give up his rights...

Posted by on May. 8, 2012 at 9:27 AM
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My would be willing to sign over his parental rights and still pay support. He has not seen the kids since August, when I forced him to give me my old computer back and found what appeared to be child porn on it. This was not the first time. I ended all supervised visitation, since it was at my discretion. He has not even asked to see them. I just worry he will remarry and get a woman who wants to play mommy to my kids, KWIM?

Here is my question. Will it be way easier for him to wiggle out of support if he has no rights?
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Tea4Tas
by on May. 8, 2012 at 10:47 AM

Nope. The two are entirely seperate.  My ex has no rights to our oldest daughter and STILL had to pay child support until she turned 18.

Caleighsmommy
by on May. 8, 2012 at 10:55 AM

 nope. the rights are for visitation... hes giving up HIS rights to see the child/children.... the child IS NOT giving up his/her RIGHTS to be supported by TWO parents :)

workoutmom2b1g
by on May. 8, 2012 at 11:01 AM

I thought if you gave up your rights, you don't have to pay child support.

Proudmomtov
by on May. 8, 2012 at 11:42 AM
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Maybe not be a good advice but what i have to say is since he has so readily agreed to cut off his rights and has never bothered to see your kids, try and get a good job and stop getting child support. Gettin support from someone like him is embarassing, you can do better as a single mom if you give it a try than relying on such *&*(&**(

Chanel5nyc
by Shanell on May. 8, 2012 at 12:00 PM

No it will not be easy for him to wiggle out of child support, if he has no rights.

Why should he get off so easy?

Let him sign his rights away and still pay child support.

chasinrainbows
by Member on May. 8, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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Getting CS for your kids is never embarassing. Collecting PA is embarassing. Not being able to afford little things your kids need...is embarassing.

Quoting Proudmomtov:

Maybe not be a good advice but what i have to say is since he has so readily agreed to cut off his rights and has never bothered to see your kids, try and get a good job and stop getting child support. Gettin support from someone like him is embarassing, you can do better as a single mom if you give it a try than relying on such *&*(&**(

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Kissybratzmom
by on May. 8, 2012 at 1:07 PM
Check with your state. My friends ex signed over his which also got him out of child support. He just owed what he was behind. Also, a lot of states won't just let someone sign over rights unless someone else is adopting the child.
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andyroosmama
by on May. 8, 2012 at 2:15 PM

 Usually state won't allow the ncp to terminate rights to child unless both parties agree the child will no longer be eligible to recieve any assistance should you need it one day.

mommynac
by on May. 8, 2012 at 4:23 PM
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If he's that much of a creep, I wouldn't worry about cs if it meant he stayed the heck away from your kids. Just me.

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