Hi group, my name is Rae, I'm almost 21, living in Arizona and this is my first kid/pregnancy. Ok, so when I found out I was pregnant, I let the father know (we had broken up about a week and a half before I found out) and he told me he wasnt ready for kids and told me to take care of the problem. Obviously I didnt listen to him. I tried getting some information from him so I could put him down on paper work etc, and he told me he wouldnt give me any info electronically, which I could understand so I asked him if he could meet me in person and he said no. That he cant trust me and demands a blood test with this 'thing' comes out. That was the last I heard from him. I decided to do some digging online and found out on the county website that he already has a kid (which he told me he didnt have kids) and owed over $2,000 in CS as of last June, also stated that he had a DNA test which came out positive. I'm not looking forward to all of this.. He doesnt have a real job, been working under the table for awhile, lives with grandparents, etc (I found out he's been lying to me the whole time I've known him and I was using protection that failed)
I was wondering if anyone has gone through any of this and has any advice?