I have a friend that blames all of her personal problems on having a kid and it affects the way she treats him. I think she really just wants her freedom because all she thinks about is the men she could be dating and the places she could go if she weren't a mother.
That's horrible. My girls are by 2 different men, but I never resented them for who their dads are... that was my fault, not theirs.
Quoting katemarie97:
My marriage has been horrible currently going through a divorce now but with all the crap that my stbx put me through while I was pregnant I was afraid I'd resent our son because he's a product of his father but when he was born my concern for that quickly went away.I do have a friend however, that has a daughter by one man and a son with her current husband and she will openly admit to resenting her daughter because she's from another man..and she can be quite awful to her..sad
She is. She had her kids too young and she had no business having them period. Some women just weren't cut out to be moms.
Quoting mommynac:No. She sounds f'd up.
No, I don't resent them in a way that is described by what you are saying having freedom. I resent them because they took the wrong route and I had wanted to talk to them about it, but I had no control over the situation. Therefore that is the resentment I have of them, not being in their lives.
Scared to get out of my comfort zone
- Robsessed98
on May. 22, 2012 at 4:12 PM