Aedan's dad contacted me. Finally. For the first time since I told him I was pregnant. And he wants involvement. Ok, fine. Drive the 132 miles to meet him. He wants 51/49 custody... um, wtf? Hell to the no, I don't think so. Just so he can be on his deers? I don't think it works that way. He can take that idea and shove it, he wants custody he can lawyer up. He didn't even contact me once thru pregnancy or this 5 months, not until he got the results from the dna test ONLY because I sent the state after him, which I only did because I needed medicaid and they require it. I offered him an out, we really don't need him or his money, so he can give up rights and be on his way, I could care less. But I don't want my son hurt in all this, so he better make up his mind. I'd rather he not know him than be hurt by him. So many things in my head, I'm stressing bad.
on May. 27, 2012 at 10:42 AM