...have the kids meet a SO?
Ok backstory. My ex and I have been apart for only 2 months now. And after only 1 month got a new SO. Now, just 1 month into the relationship he is wanting to have them hang out. He actually wanted to take our almost 7 month old for the entire weekend to her house 2 hrs away, when he has never been away from me for even 1 night. (After he had agreed to take things slow with the kids/her)
I feel that it is way too early and that they should be together for at least 6 months before you start introducing the kids. And I don't feel one-sided I would do the same also. Especially when my kids are so young.
My oldest is not his and is proof that kids get attached easily. His father is not in our lives and thankfully my ex considers him his own also.
We are doing a mediation on Tuesday to help figure out visitation and your input would be greatly appreciated.
I have now talked with his SO since she contacted me via facebook. I was very hesitant but did it anyway. She seems pretty decent and also agrees it is too soon. I'll post another update after our mediation on tuesday.