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Everyone is so over me talking about the father of my child. I cant help it, Im hurt & confused. We have never actually been offically together & when I got pregnant he was like Im here & a lot of drama was going on due to him lying about him & his "ex" who wasnt his ex. Tis girl has put him throught everything & has cheated on him gave him STDs got him evicted twice from places & has even cheated on him for money. As soon as she found out I was pregnant she acted like she was & has all along. She is scuh a awlful insane person. He moved in with me & said he was done with her & blah blah, the two days later he said he was staying at his moms. He never came back after that. He was actually with her & e ended up living me at 9 wks pregnant alone & I had such a high risk pregnancy & stressful one at that. All along he never called or was concerned with me & his unborn child. The girl said everything she could on FB about me & claiming she was pregnant. I had my daughter & 2 wks later contacted him bc I was scared that his mom & him would come after me due to putting him on child support bc of medical for my daughter. He said that they had broke up after she went nuts on him one day & he finally saw how she really was & how insane she was. He was saying how he thought of me & his dauhgter everyday & he missed me & loved hearing my voice. It was like nothing had happened & we kinda fell back into how we was other than me not trusting him bc of all that had happened when I was pregnant. I even confronted the crazy chick. But she keeps saying things on FB once again like on the 21st he stayed the night with me & went to a bar that night with my brother & when I woke up she had said that he was lying about being a bar & things & threating me. Then from me having his email password to his gmail I guess she put this hiddon ap on his phone where it does the GPS & takes a random picture. After this big blow out on may 9th & we confronted her it took a picture the next day of her holding his phone in his car. O the 21st he told me he was jealous bc my ex had came over that day & he keepsd saying how down the road he wants to  put a ring on it & saying for me not to go crazy in relationships & seeing other people & he isnt with her & just wants to be single for awhile, but Ive been seeing pictures on his email of him laying the bed with the same bedding as she is posting on FB & after we had a great night on the 21st & he spent the night. I went out with my brother & sister to a movie & ran into him & he was with a girl who I couldnt see well, but looked like his crazy ex. I was so hurt bc he has NEVER done anything for me & after everything she has done he took her out after being with me that morning. Then this morning she checked in at "home swwet home." & it was at his house. He keeps saying she doesnt live with him & he doesnt even talk to her, that she only works at his moms place bc they have no way of firing her. I have all this proof & he keeps lying to me & I know he does, but Im so in love with him & I hate that he is like this. I dont know what to do to move on & stop wanting to be with him & trying to prove myself. Please I really need someone to talk to. I know I sound so stupid, but everytime I see him he draws me back into wanting to be with him. Its even worst now bc I want him around for our daughter. PLEASE HELP!!

by on Jun. 9, 2012 at 8:26 PM
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faerie75
by Ruby Member on Jun. 11, 2012 at 4:55 PM
You've never even been together and ha all this damn drama? Move on, girl. Put him on child support, and keep it moving. Read this back and ask yourself, what is there to love?
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