Curious if this has happened to anyone else. Earlier I made a post with pictures of my son and his dad and his new sister to ask about resemblance. Nothing bad but then I get a threatening text from my ex's new girlfriend and have no idea what she's talking about. Then I get on cafemom and she had made a profile and commented the post. I asked her how she found me on here. It's a group for single moms....and shes not a single mom.....I don't know anyone personally outside of the site. I don't share that I'm on here because this is my safe place to vent, cope, and get advice. I don't have any kind of social networking sites so this is it for my interaction with other adults. So if no one knows I'm on here and I don't know anyone on here how did she find me? Man does it suck though because now I'm going to worry about anything I post. I had a girl talk about her ex that was abusive and I told her I was sorry I hoped karma caught up with them and things turned out good for her and bad for him.....then I get a text from the new girlfriend saying I was bashing my son's father. Oh god I'm going to have my own personal critic on cafemom. Well welcome Taylor I have nothing to hide so snoop away. I was hoping we had grown out of this. Anyone had this happen? How could they find me???