I'm a stay at home mom with my own home daycare, so I'm home all day with the boys + many more kids + make dinner, clean the house, & maintain my daycare tasks . Only a mother can imagine how much work that is...men dont know. I've been thru so much b.s with him n I'm honestly only still with him for my sons. But even that is not good enough now because he comes home and instntly wants to put our sons to sleep, just so he can watch tv uninterrupted. The days he goes to the gym straight after work he goes for 2 hrs , he comes home, sits on the toilet for half hour (no exaggeration) , showers, eats n watches tv n wants to go to bed without considering how tired I am or willing to help me with the boys. There are days I can't shower because he complains if i leave him alone with them for 20 minutes.
I told him if he doesn't want to be here he can go, I know he dreads having to come home. In public he loves to claim he's a great father but we argue all the time because I express to him how much I need his help and it goes unheard . He simply just ignores me now. I joined this aite tonight hoping for single moms advice and support. Thanks in advance ---- Elisa