MY childs father was put on child support when Parker was 11 months old he has only seen him a handful of times for a few hours when we were signing the agreement forvisits and stuff we agreed to just go with the standard agreement but he said we would work all the visits out between us and like a dummy a trusted him... it has been a nightmare since then because he wanted the baby the whole weekend right after that and after arguing he agreed to take him for the day and then overnight the next time and now Parker has spent 2 whole weekends with them but now out of no where he texts me to say "oh by the way july 1st we are taking him for the month" my heart sank I was so angry i told him no and i was going to call the attorney general and started to panic but when monday rolled around i called and there is nothing that can be done because it is in the agreement... how do i deal with this a month without my 1 year old baby is so hearwrenching. how could he do this? He did not want anything to do with my son until he had to pay and he makes that very clear he is making me miserable because he now has to pay child support... I have resorted to begging him to do one week with him and send him home for a week for the summer just anything so i dont have to be without my baby for a month and he is not budging... worst thing ever take this as a lesson mommys going through child support proceedings put everything in writing never trust your childs father!! I am at a loss july 1st is so soon!!