OK so I am moving out of my sisters in about 2 weeks. I don't currently have a job but am looking for part time work so I can get off PA. My sister told me months ago that she would babysit while I worked as long as I was able to get DD before she went to work. So I am fairly certain I have a job and I think I'm going to have to turn it down because my sister who I thought had grown up is proving to be as unreliable as ever and I don't know if I can trust her to watch DD. My father works all day. My mother just refuses to babysit on a regular basis. My brother's girlfriend offered to babysit if I paid her but 1 she just had her second kid and barely takes care of them so I wouldn't trust her to babysit my DD 2 she doesn't like my DD for somereason is always snapping at her for no reason etc 3 I can't afford to pay for a babysitter or I would put her in a daycare. Yes I realize I got myself in this position but it would be really great if someone would give me a little help occasionally so I can get our lives on track.
* Would just like to clarify a few points 1 my DD always has and always will be my first concern if she needs something I make sure she has it if she wants something 90% of the time I make sure she gets it. 2 the boyfriend I am trying to help financially is my fiance the wedding is in April. So by helping him when I can now I am helping my DD and I in the long run. 3 yes I am young only 21 but I am not stupid I have thought long and hard about this and I have decided this is the best course of action for me to pay whatever extra I can now so when his debt is gone I can stay home with DD to homeschool. 4 thank you all of you ladies who were helpful and understanding that this was just a vent and for all of the advice I can use.
Have a great day!
on Jun. 23, 2012 at 3:21 AM