Ladies I have a question???

[Cali34]

Now I'm asking do anybody feels I'm wrong by changing my numbers so my husband can't call me our his kids????? first off let me explain why I did what I did!! This men hasn't see our kids in 3 mos. he calls maybe every 3 to 4 weeks just to say hi Daddy love you, did you love me, and do you want to come spend the night after that he is ready to get off the phone. Oh I forgot to tell you he change his number mos. ago and didn't give it to me but he feels he should beable to call my phone. plus I'm also 6 mos. pregnant by him when he don't do shit for me or the kids. our 7yr old dislike him she just holds the phone when he calls. So I feel until he's ready to become a men then I'll treat him like a men... I feel at the end of the day if this men dislikes me he should never turn his back on is kids!!!!!

[Charlotte1608]

My kids dad is the same. He's been gone 4 mths and he's phoned once. I'm always getting pissed off about it but now i'm thinking fuck it. You can't make someone be a dad if they don't want too. And believe me i know how hard it is dealing with a dickhead BUT i will never do anything to make my kids question me. It's on him.

[Cali34]

I understand that loser term because that's what I'm dealing with. this men feels deep down if I'm not dealing with him his not dealing with the kids!!!! So way in the hell should I keep kissing his ass for him to deal with our kids?????? I feel like you life is better with out him!

Quoting steviechick:

My DD has own cell phone and that's how her father gets a hold of her.  The last time I heard from him was back in Dec of last year when he wanted to call him mom for her b-day.  SInce then he's been able to get their cell numbers.  I want nothing to do with him but I 'm sure I will as long as he owes me money (five years) and our DD until she graduates from college.  He's behind already in his college fund.  Plus, he owes me for personal loans.  He will be in contempt of court today if that money isn't paid back to my attorney.  Now, if my DD continues to have a relationship with her father that's alright by me.  IF he does hurt her in any way (through the bimbo or the kids) I will have to get involved.  My DD is only 18 and very much NOT ready to take on her father in an adult situtation.  I'm sure if she does continue to have a relationship as she gets older, my ex will end up being in my life - weddings, and any other family things (deaths).  We have a daughter together.  The thought of him being out of her life would make my life much better.  He's a total loser.

[Cali34]

If you would read some of my posting you may understand my issue with him. this men feels deep down if I'm not dealing with him he's not dealing with the kids!!!! So way in the hell should I keep kissing his ass to deal with our kids???? I feel like my life is better with out him!

Quoting Rose87:

if he rarely calls, what is the issue?

[Cali34]

I really do like what you said!!!!!!!!! SOme PEOPLE NEED TO READ WHAT YOU'RE SAYING AND GET A FUCKING UNDERSTANDING BECAUSE I SEE SO WOMEN DON'T have A FUCKING IDEA!!!!!!!!! Because I've been kissing ass long enough. My kids don't miss him or want to see him so I'm cool with that!!!

Quoting Charlotte1608:

My kids dad is the same. He's been gone 4 mths and he's phoned once. I'm always getting pissed off about it but now i'm thinking fuck it. You can't make someone be a dad if they don't want too. And believe me i know how hard it is dealing with a dickhead BUT i will never do anything to make my kids question me. It's on him.

[Cali34]

Please read my other postings before leaving one!

Quoting Mommyto2LilMen:

Yes you are wrong and if he ever took you to court over custody purposes, it would look very bad on your part. 

[Rose87]

I read your post.
I have an ex and he has a number to contact me but doesn't call for MONTHS.
I haven't changed my number.

If he barely calls, it isn't a big nuisance.

Quoting Cali34:

If you would read some of my posting you may understand my issue with him. this men feels deep down if I'm not dealing with him he's not dealing with the kids!!!! So way in the hell should I keep kissing his ass to deal with our kids???? I feel like my life is better with out him!

Quoting Rose87:

if he rarely calls, what is the issue?

[Charlotte1608]

He does have my phone number. Address etc but he chooses not to ring. It is frustrating that someone thinks they can walk in and out of their life when it suits but i'm done getting upset over it (well i'm trying) and i do worry about the effect it will have on them later but i'll deal with that then.

Quoting Cali34:

I really do like what you said!!!!!!!!! SOme PEOPLE NEED TO READ WHAT YOU'RE SAYING AND GET A FUCKING UNDERSTANDING BECAUSE I SEE SO WOMEN DON'T have A FUCKING IDEA!!!!!!!!! Because I've been kissing ass long enough. My kids don't miss him or want to see him so I'm cool with that!!!

Quoting Charlotte1608:

My kids dad is the same. He's been gone 4 mths and he's phoned once. I'm always getting pissed off about it but now i'm thinking fuck it. You can't make someone be a dad if they don't want too. And believe me i know how hard it is dealing with a dickhead BUT i will never do anything to make my kids question me. It's on him.

[Cali34]

I feel the same but yes I do stress at times because I don't want my girls turning to no men looking for the love they should have got from his loser butt. its sad how boys can make kids but will not stand and be a men to father them!!!!!!! He knows were we lay our heads and the house number but he choose not to look at the kids because I'm not looking at him... I feel bad but I'm suppose to be unhappy just to have a piece of family?

Quoting Charlotte1608:

He does have my phone number. Address etc but he chooses not to ring. It is frustrating that someone thinks they can walk in and out of their life when it suits but i'm done getting upset over it (well i'm trying) and i do worry about the effect it will have on them later but i'll deal with that then.

Quoting Cali34:

I really do like what you said!!!!!!!!! SOme PEOPLE NEED TO READ WHAT YOU'RE SAYING AND GET A FUCKING UNDERSTANDING BECAUSE I SEE SO WOMEN DON'T have A FUCKING IDEA!!!!!!!!! Because I've been kissing ass long enough. My kids don't miss him or want to see him so I'm cool with that!!!

Quoting Charlotte1608:

My kids dad is the same. He's been gone 4 mths and he's phoned once. I'm always getting pissed off about it but now i'm thinking fuck it. You can't make someone be a dad if they don't want too. And believe me i know how hard it is dealing with a dickhead BUT i will never do anything to make my kids question me. It's on him.

[Charlotte1608]

Yeah i left my kids dad, i didnt want to be in an unhappy relationship anymore. My kids dad is like your's, he only wanted to be a dad if me and him were together.

Quoting Cali34:

I feel the same but yes I do stress at times because I don't want my girls turning to no men looking for the love they should have got from his loser butt. its sad how boys can make kids but will not stand and be a men to father them!!!!!!! He knows were we lay our heads and the house number but he choose not to look at the kids because I'm not looking at him... I feel bad but I'm suppose to be unhappy just to have a piece of family?

Quoting Charlotte1608:

He does have my phone number. Address etc but he chooses not to ring. It is frustrating that someone thinks they can walk in and out of their life when it suits but i'm done getting upset over it (well i'm trying) and i do worry about the effect it will have on them later but i'll deal with that then.

Quoting Cali34:

I really do like what you said!!!!!!!!! SOme PEOPLE NEED TO READ WHAT YOU'RE SAYING AND GET A FUCKING UNDERSTANDING BECAUSE I SEE SO WOMEN DON'T have A FUCKING IDEA!!!!!!!!! Because I've been kissing ass long enough. My kids don't miss him or want to see him so I'm cool with that!!!

Quoting Charlotte1608:

My kids dad is the same. He's been gone 4 mths and he's phoned once. I'm always getting pissed off about it but now i'm thinking fuck it. You can't make someone be a dad if they don't want too. And believe me i know how hard it is dealing with a dickhead BUT i will never do anything to make my kids question me. It's on him.