I don't know if you remember my crazy story, and constant battle with BD, but here it is in a nutshell:
He went back to his ex wife and hes been back and forth during this entire pregnancy. one day he wants to come back and make things work and have our family together. Then he moves back out and we go through this whole cycle again. But whenever he has left he starts sending me texts saying how hes going to take full custody of my son from me after hes born and "allow me visitation". also threats of saying hes going to lie and say im an unfit mother in order to make that happen. So anyway, I kind of cut off contact and now today hes trying i guess to be civil? But now it seems like he has an alterior motive and is trying to be sneaky by telling me to sign something? Please read and give input of how you think I should proceed or what hes up to:
This is from BD this morning:
"Neither of us is in a legal position to do anything, even after Lucas is born. As long as you are 100% sure Lucas is mine (and I am not saying that to be mean and I am not trying to fish for any info) we would have to sign a parental acknowledgment form. Witnessed and notarized. You may already know this and that's why you have eluded from telling me the birthdate. There is slim time frame after he is born to get this done. We can, however, do it sooner. I have to pick ip the form or have it mailes there is no PDF i can sownload. Investigate and let me know if you want to do this. I have no problem and it benefits you greatly. Only problem it poses is that my name will be listed on the birth certificate and I can challenge the last name."
I feel like he is pretending to be nice and civil now, but trying to ge tme to agree to do something just for his benefit. He has done nothing but lie, manipulate and deceive up until this point and I feel I need to protect myself, and would like input on what his angle is here and how to proceed.
Thank you ladies :)