how do you ladies feel about this response to my previous post on my bd cheating the cs system ?
As a woman I find it very irritating when other women complain about child support. It makes me wonder why you had a child that you could not support on your own from the start. Life is full of unexpected circumstances that put us all in a tough spot at times like death of a supporting parent and etc. What I do not understand is why the father always made out to be the bad guy. Here is a thought.. let's say we lived in a country where the mother does not just have the automatic right to the child and the father had custody, would you be able to fork out the amount of money you are asking for and still be able to live your life and pay the necessary bills to keep yourself afloat? Most likely not, due to poor planning. So before you bash your "baby daddy" for being irresponsible maybe you need a step back and reevaluate your lack of obtaining a job to support the family you willingly started.