My son's father has a baby due July 2nd. This is his...8th child. We do not get along and have resorted to going to court for our problems. I seriously don't like him. He never pays child support and I need it. We are starting visitation on July 7th and he says he will get my child support when he has "his stuff together". How would he afford his newest child? He can't even pay for my son. If you resorted to talking to the PA and going through programs to get your child support, and he was eventually put in jail or more financial strain, would you feel bad for his new child? He will probably have his child everyday, since he's with his girlfriend and I think that he would put that child first before my son. I don't think my son deserves to be 2nd.