First of all, I'm 27 years old, I'm from NY and have 2 beautiful children, Arianna (4 1/2) and Jeremiah (1 year old on the 1st of July). Arianna's father and I (Jeff) are divorced, and there are days we get along, others we don't. Anyway, I am currently 24 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child, with (I don't even know what he is know) Rob -he is also Jeremiah's father. This pregnancy was unplanned. In the beginning I did think about getting an abortion but I just couldn't do it. This entire pregnancy, I've been going to each and every appointment alone (without him) - he only went to one at 10 weeks and as soon as we got out he asked when I was going to have the abortion. Obviously, it had gotten me very upset and hurt. Up until 16 weeks, he asked me to get that done, but I stand by my decision. Anyway, current living situation is we live apart. All he wants is for me to move in with him and his mother. His mother does EVERYTHING for him, cooks, does his laundry, etc. Regarding Arianna he wants me to get rid of her furniture because there's no room for it, there's no room for my almost 85 year old grandmother, to spend a few nights when she comes to help and visit from LI, but for his grandmother who's in PR there HAS to be room. He shows favoritism towards Jeremiah, and Arianna gets pushed aside. Arianna herself has already commented on that, shes not a baby, she sees what's going on around her and she can tell (she's smart not stupid). I just feel exhausted and am seriously hurt by his action's. I'd like to be a family with him, but all he thinks about is living with his mother. He has NEVER been on his own, he has NEVER lived on his own, so if he is afraid I understand that. This child he doesn't care about at all. He doesn't even mention her (its a girl btw :-) If he wants to be a family fine, but not with his mother. We need to be on OUR OWN. Not with another person. He needs to stop paying his mom's bills and needs to stop being a teenager. I just am very upset. I know stress isn't good for the pregnancy, but this is what's going on. Just need some friends to talk to.